Programming Forums - Winsock: specified sending

I'm having trouble finding the error here. When I have multiple users connected to the server, if one user sends a message, the server will end up sending it back to all users(including the user who sent the original message). What I need to do is allow the server to send to all users minus the original sender. Here's what my code looks like, the commented area is where I'm assuming the code needs some fixing, but I've tried a bunch of different combinations of removing the original sender from the sending sockets, but then the server only sends to certain users.

if ((bytes = recv(i, recvbuf, sizeof(recvbuf), 0)) <= 0)

                {

                    for(int h = 0; h < my_vec.size(); h++)

                    {

                        tempuser.id = i;

                        tempuser2 = my_vec.at(h);

                        if(tempuser2.id == tempuser.id)

                        {

                                my_vec.erase(my_vec.begin()+h);

                        }

                    }

                    std::cout << tempuser2.name << " has left the server. Socket "

                    << i << " is now free." << std::endl;

                    closesocket(i);

                    FD_CLR(i, &master);

                } else {

                    for(j = 0; j <= fdmax; j++)

                    {

                        if (FD_ISSET(j, &master))

                        {

                            {   

                                if(j == i)break;     // if the sending socket is equal to the socket receiving the message, exit loop.

                                send(j, recvbuf, sizeof(recvbuf), 0);

                            }

                        }

                    }

                }